Topic is Sleeping.
BigBlueEyes (original poster member #71441) posted at 2:19 PM on Thursday, February 18th, 2021
1 year today I got legal confirmation of a brand new beginning,
1 year today my ex got legal confirmation he could no longer abuse me under the pretence of marriage!!
I will never forget
Everything I have gone through,
All the times I pushed on even though I thought I couldn’t,
All the mornings I got out of bed no matter how hard it was,
All the times I wanted to give up but I got through another day,
I’ll never ever forget how strong I was & still am,
I’ll never forget I’m a motherfudgingbadass!!!!
Thank you SI & all that had a hand in getting me to where I am today....you literally saved my life 
As for my Ex....fuck you from the bottom of my heart 
Me- BW, 47
Multi Dday's,
DB A's x 2 BFF
Multi ONS's, Online shit.
Serial cheat, Abuser,
D 18.02.20
Stay strong, just because it’s hard today, doesn’t mean that next week it won’t get easier!!
wildbananas ( member #10552) posted at 2:32 PM on Thursday, February 18th, 2021
I remember your story - you ARE a badass! And congratulations on your freedom!
Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan
EllieKMAS ( member #68900) posted at 2:41 PM on Thursday, February 18th, 2021
(((BBE)))
You ARE a motherfudging badass for sure!
"No, it's you mothafucka, here's a list of reasons why." – Iliza Schlesinger
"The love that you lost isn't worth what it cost and in time you'll be glad that it's gone." – Linkin Park
skeetermooch ( member #72169) posted at 2:57 PM on Thursday, February 18th, 2021
Big congratulations, BBE!!! You are a super hero. Thank you for sharing.
Me: BS 56 on DDay 1 - 7/2019 DIVORCED - 1/2021
JanaGreen ( member #29341) posted at 3:10 PM on Thursday, February 18th, 2021
Happy day! Treat yourself!
BearlyBreathing ( member #55075) posted at 3:13 PM on Thursday, February 18th, 2021
You deserve the good life you are living! So happy for you!
Me: BS 57 (49 on d-day)Him: *who cares ;-) *. D-Day 8/15/2016 LTA. Kinda liking my new life :-)
**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **
HeHadADoubleLife ( member #68944) posted at 3:47 PM on Thursday, February 18th, 2021
Awesome BBE! Congrats on 1 year!
BW
DDay Nov 2018
Many previous DDays due to his sex addiction
Hurt me with the truth, but don't comfort me with a lie.
Love is never wasted, for its value does not rest upon reciprocity.
barcher144 ( member #54935) posted at 4:13 PM on Thursday, February 18th, 2021
fuck you from the heart of my bottom
Sorry, this needed fixing.
Me: Crap, I'm 50 years old. D-Day: August 30, 2016. Two years of false reconciliation. Divorce final: Feb 1, 2021. Re-married: December 3, 2022.
twicefooled ( member #42976) posted at 5:21 PM on Thursday, February 18th, 2021
May 29 2021 ***reclaimed myself and decided to delete my story with my ex because I'm now 7 years free from him and mentally healthier than I've been in years.
*********When you know better, you can do better*************
countrydirt ( member #55758) posted at 5:59 PM on Thursday, February 18th, 2021
3 adult sonsMarried 32 years. DDay1 - June 2016, DDay 2 - April 2017, Final DDay - May 2020. Divorced - January 2021
Life is Good!
BobPar ( member #62993) posted at 6:00 PM on Thursday, February 18th, 2021
Happy Div Day! 
DDay 1 (AP1) and 2 (AP2) 2015 DDay 3 (AP 3) and 4 (AP4) 2016There was some overlap with 3 and 4)False R 2016Suspect more from exWW
Chili ( member #35503) posted at 6:45 PM on Thursday, February 18th, 2021
You are mighty! You are righteous! You are onward!
(Oh yeah - and I'm flipping off whathiswhozit for good measure).
2012 pretty much sucked.
Things no longer suck.
Took off flying solo with the co-pilot chili dog.
"Life teaches you how to live it if you live long enough" - Tony Bennett
Lalagirl ( member #14576) posted at 6:55 PM on Thursday, February 18th, 2021
This made my day!!!
((((BBE)))) Onward, girlfriend!
2025: Me-59 FWH-61 Married 41 years grown daughters- 41 & 37. 1 GS,11yo GD & 9yo GD (DD40); Five grands ages 15 to 8. D-day #1-1/06; D-day #2-3/07 Reconciled! Construction Complete. Astra inclinant, sed non obligant
WhoTheBleep ( member #49504) posted at 10:24 PM on Thursday, February 18th, 2021
Woo hoo poop!! (My phone keeps auto correcting to add "poop", so forget it, I'm leaving it)
Yaaaaaayyyy
I believe we have two lives: the one we learn with, and the one we live with after that. --The Natural
barcher144 ( member #54935) posted at 10:45 PM on Thursday, February 18th, 2021
My phone keeps auto correcting to add "poop", so forget it, I'm leaving it
Is your phone possessed by a 9 year old boy?
Me: Crap, I'm 50 years old. D-Day: August 30, 2016. Two years of false reconciliation. Divorce final: Feb 1, 2021. Re-married: December 3, 2022.
Karmafan ( member #53810) posted at 7:56 AM on Friday, February 19th, 2021
I will never forget
Everything I have gone through,
All the times I pushed on even though I thought I couldn’t,
Surviving infidelity & divorce kinda makes us heroic doesn’t it?
Congrats on your anniversary BBE
Me 48 XWH Irrelevant D-day 23 Feb 163 amazing, resilient kids
You are not a drop in the Ocean, you are the entire Ocean in a drop
WhoTheBleep ( member #49504) posted at 12:12 PM on Friday, February 19th, 2021
Duplicate
[This message edited by WhoTheBleep at 6:13 AM, February 19th (Friday)]
I believe we have two lives: the one we learn with, and the one we live with after that. --The Natural
WhoTheBleep ( member #49504) posted at 12:12 PM on Friday, February 19th, 2021
Is your phone possessed by a 9 year old boy?
"Poop" is my younger kids' ultimate insult. So yes, I believe so. In this case, we will use it to refer to BBE's XPOS WH 
I believe we have two lives: the one we learn with, and the one we live with after that. --The Natural
BigBlueEyes (original poster member #71441) posted at 1:59 PM on Friday, February 19th, 2021
Awe thank you everyone, I really appreciate your great wishes 😊
I’ve reclaimed all other dates/days slowly & surely.
Not this 1 though, it’s the 1 day/date I WILL celebrate & remember in my future 🎉🪅🎉
Fuck you from the heart of my bottom
Haha brilliant!!!!
WhoTheBleep, haha love it..thank you for leaving it 😂
Me- BW, 47
Multi Dday's,
DB A's x 2 BFF
Multi ONS's, Online shit.
Serial cheat, Abuser,
D 18.02.20
Stay strong, just because it’s hard today, doesn’t mean that next week it won’t get easier!!
Chaos ( member #61031) posted at 2:15 PM on Friday, February 19th, 2021
OMG BBE! You are FREEEEEEEEEEEE!!!!!!
I am so happy for you. You are the epitome of Bad Ass. Whatever you wore to those proceedings [even if it was PJs and the proceedings were virtual] - that is my new favorite super suit.
Cheers! Fist Bump! Happy Dance! Whatever SuperHero handshake you come up with! YOU ROCK.
BS-me/WH-4.5yrLTA Married 2+ decades-2 adult children. Multiple DDays w/same LAP until I told OBS 2018- Cease & Desist sent spring 2021 "Hello–My name is Chaos–You f***ed my husband-Prepare to Die!"
Topic is Sleeping.
