Topic is Sleeping.
demolishedinside (original poster member #47839) posted at 1:44 AM on Tuesday, October 27th, 2020
You know, five years on SI, and I NEVER thought I would say that. I know you all know what I mean. It felt like I was forever under this black cloud. But then my divorce was final. I had peace. I watched whatever I wanted on tv and started to learn things about taking care of a house on my own.
I got on some of the apps. Boy, was that an experience. Just as I was thinking I was done for a while, I met someone. It's been two fun and glorious months. He's considering moving closer to me, and I am feeling joy at work and in my personal life.
I just wanted to hop on and say that I'd never have believed I would date and be happy, but here I am. It sure feels good to have something good to share, friends.
Dem
BS - me/3 kids
DD - April 2015 / SA-Jan. 28, 2017
DD2- October 23, 2018
Divorced and happy
WhoTheBleep ( member #49504) posted at 2:43 AM on Tuesday, October 27th, 2020
Ooooooohhhh!!! This post makes me happy! I'm so happy for you! We arrived here within a couple of months of each other. It's been quite a road, eh? You sound strong and solid. Welcome to your new beginning. You soooooo deserve this.
I believe we have two lives: the one we learn with, and the one we live with after that. --The Natural
BearlyBreathing ( member #55075) posted at 3:27 AM on Tuesday, October 27th, 2020
Me: BS 57 (49 on d-day)Him: *who cares ;-) *. D-Day 8/15/2016 LTA. Kinda liking my new life :-)
**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **
JanaGreen ( member #29341) posted at 3:44 AM on Tuesday, October 27th, 2020
demolishedinside (original poster member #47839) posted at 5:27 PM on Tuesday, October 27th, 2020
Bleep, yes. I think we were very close join dates. I really just can’t believe I finally feel good. I really am still in shock. It’s like we’ve been through so much that I’m waiting for the other shoe to drop.
I actually had to ask for something I needed. I waited. He did it. It’s stunningly wonderful to feel heard.
BS - me/3 kids
DD - April 2015 / SA-Jan. 28, 2017
DD2- October 23, 2018
Divorced and happy
crazyblindsided ( member #35215) posted at 5:37 PM on Tuesday, October 27th, 2020
This is fantastic and inspiring! I'm so happy you are happy 
fBS/fWS(me):52 Mad-hattered after DD (2008)
XWS:55 Serial Cheater, Diagnosed NPD
DD(22) DS(19)
XWS cheated the entire M spanning 19 years
Discovered D-Days 2006,2008,2012, False R 2014
Separated 9/2019; Divorced 8/2024
DevastatedDee ( member #59873) posted at 5:44 PM on Tuesday, October 27th, 2020
You know this brings me joy. You deserve ALL the good things!!!
DDay: 06/07/2017
MH - RA on DDay.
Divorced a serial cheater (prostitutes and lord only knows who and what else).
leafields ( Guide #63517) posted at 5:46 PM on Tuesday, October 27th, 2020
BW M 34years, Dday 1: March 2018, Dday 2: August 2019, D final 2/25/21
maise ( member #69516) posted at 6:28 PM on Tuesday, October 27th, 2020
This is awesome!! I’m so happy for you!
BW (SSM) D-Day: 6/9/2018 Status: Divorced
"Our task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it."
— Rumi
Topic is Sleeping.
