Emotional affair through text
Hi I think my wife was having a emotional affair. I got diagnosed with bowel cancer which has been hard for both of us. I'm still having treatment at the moment. My wife started working afternoons which is was fine. She started to talk to a driver at work who had bowel cancer which she told me about. Anyhow didn't think anymore about it. Then she started to change. Becoming angry with me having more and more arguments saying I have changed I'm not the same person. Which is quite hard going through what I'm.going through. Then she came out with I'm suffocating her in the relationship we need space she needs to do her things and u should do mine. I started to worry she kept hold of her phone all the time when before she didn't worry about it. Then on a night out with friends she was in the toilets for 25mins. I confronted her asking if she texting someone she denied this. We had a massive argument she went off crying and didnt speak to me for 2 days. She then told me nye she went for a coffee with this driver. I didn't know they had become that.close. I thought it was just occasionally chatting at work. That night I managed to get into her phone which I shouldn't of. I didn't find any messages to him. Not even meeting up for a coffee that day. I did find some pictures in lingerie which I haven't seen. I comforted her about this. She said she had sent him a picture of her cleavage but nothing else and she deleted all his messages as she was snagging me off. I couldn't believe this I was devastated. I told her to block him which she did. She said it was only that one photo and nothing else. He text her on nyd saying i see I have been blocked she showed me the text. She asked if she could ring him to explain I said yes. After a week I said look u can text him if you want to she said she wouldn't. But that same day she text him. After a few days I asked her can I look at her phone she said yes and she deleted more texts to him. I said you can't text him anymore. Which I believe now she hasn't as we have become closer again. But he keeps texting her every so often it's so frustrating. Is this an emotional affair sorry for it being so long.
14 comments posted: Saturday, February 1st, 2025
