Dday: over a period of three days 11/14-16/2012.
EA/PA: ~ 2 1/2 years
EA/beginning PA: ~ 10 months
Hoped I'd never have to add this: Dday #2 11/22/2015 Not sure how far it went yet but have a pretty good idea.
2 Cor. 12:9-10
My son was caught in an EA. My wife once WW is taking her side
I got a call from my son (from my first marriage) that floored me. He got caught in an EA. He assured me they never met in person. He’s obviously miserable and I think apart from getting caught the last thing he wanted was to tell me because we’re so close. He and his wife had a baby about a year ago and I’m pretty sure from what he said she’s done and I’m sure if they do D she’ll fight for sole custody.
I told my W about it after he and I spoke. She immediately took his wife’s side and kind acted like he’s dead to her. She texted his wife today and told her she and the baby could come live with us, which I don’t see happening as she has a sister who lives far closer. I’m just really having trouble wrapping my head around her seeming to be so ready to disown my son when everything she did to me is an order of magnitude worse. I totally understand how wrong what he did was, but for her to act like she’s got clean hands in this arena I don’t understand.
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