VezfromTaz (original poster member #80815) posted at 11:52 PM on Saturday, April 5th, 2025
Hi everyone
I completely forgot about this forum after being a frequent user 2021 when I found out my ex-husband was a pathological liar and wotnot. Anyway I didn't post much but just wanted to check in and impress upon people who experience betrayal trauma the importance of seeing a medical professional as soon as possible, and possibly looking at medication, as whilst the discovery of the betrayal is an initial trauma, the physiological response that sits in the body for months or years afterwards over which you may have very little control, absent medication, therapy or other strategies, can become a secondary form of trauma.
So please see someone even if you don't want to tell anyone what's happened, or make any decisions to leave or stay. It is really important for your health.
Ichooseme ( new member #86031) posted at 5:25 PM on Sunday, April 6th, 2025
I wholeheartedly agree with you. Thank you for bringing your post.
When I discovered my husband’s infidelity and the true nature of my marriage, my world crumbled. I appeared exhausted and disheveled, struggled to sleep, and experienced several panic attacks.
After exhausting all my options for affordable help, I found no one willing to assist me. Finally, I reached my breaking point and turned to online resources for affordable counseling. I stumbled upon Cerebral, one of several programs that offer both counseling and medication. I was in dire need of help, and I soon began to gain a clearer perspective, improve my sleep, and receive the support I desperately required. I strongly recommend seeking help. Again, thank you for sharing this valuable post.
